Somebody told, you had a boyfriend, that looked like a girlfriend I had in February

We are what we are. I've know straight guys that have come off as the stereotypical 'gay' man, I've known gay men that seem stereotypically straight and the same can be said of the women I know. You never know or rather, my gaydar is fucked up become compare (true, true). When I connect with a person it's not about their sexuality, it's about the 'connect', one soul to another, I dig where that person is coming from, I don't question if they're a top or bottom, I just love their sensibilities, their look, above all their mind. God and politics don't define our relationship, we define it. I read this post tonight and it broke my heart, because it affected a child, an innocent, who said:

"I'm not a fag if I don't want to have a girlfriend, am I'"

His mother's reply:

"You are not a fag, period. It doesn?t matter if you like girls, or if you like boys. It doesn't matter at all. And you are not a fag no matter what. It's a hateful word that stupid people use to hurt each other."

A "fag" is chiefly British. Fatiguing or tedious work; drudgery or rather, a cigarette in England. A "fag" is also sacred slang homosexuals use as a term of endearment towards each other as much as African-Americans use the word "nigger" amongst themselves. 'Tis not for others not of the same ilk to use as a slam. Note to the public: know what the fuck your saying when you say it, don't be an ignorant asschimp, when you do say such things it shows your lack of education or want of enlightenment and those who know better laugh at your sorry, stupid and fearful ass.

We are what we are, we are not you, we are not them, we are ourselves in all of its imperfections and perfections, we are individually sublime in our own skins and no one can say otherwise, period.